OUR MISSION

Grief = Love

"After my father died, it was incredibly painful when I didn't hear from people I cared about because they didn't know
what to say or do.

Grief Gifts was created so others don't have to go through what I went through." - Co-Founder, Kate Vosti

We are here to help both the supporter and the griever. With this gift, you are giving more than flowers, you are giving resources that will actually make a difference on the recipient's healing journey.

Flowers, although thoughtful, only last a week, while resources like this are woven into someone's life. Make your gesture count.

We believe, from personal experience, that beneath grief is always love. Inside this gift are effective ways to find meaning amidst loss.

What's included in our Gift Box?

  • Gift Box

  • Calm Heart Candle

  • Warm Hug Tea

  • Apache Tear Stone

  • Healing After Loss Book

  • Grief = Love Journal + E-Gift

An 8oz hand-poured, clean-burning, long-lasting, coconut-soy wax candle to place somewhere meaningful. The scent includes organic essential oils: rose, violet, lily, magnolia, amber, & cedar-wood.

A 4oz organic herbal blend (with reusable cotton bag), intentionally chosen to give you the nourishing embrace you need: rose petals for tenderness, lavender for relaxation, chamomile for comfort, and Tulsi for regulation.

This stone’s folklore origin and energetic properties are associated with healing grief. It serves as a powerful totem, offering comfort and reminding you to breathe in moments of struggle.

Daily thoughtful quotes and reflections by author Martha Whitmore Hickman, to get you through the first year. You never know what synchronous message awaits you that day.

A leather-bound ally in your healing journey that can serve as a creative, expressive, and contemplative outlet. We have provided journaling prompts inside of your e-gift.

In addition to your physical gifts, you have access to a virtual library of support. Waiting for you are guided mindfulness meditations and somatic practices that will help you process emotions and discover how to find meaning amidst your grief.

Loss is never easy, but showing you care can be...

  • Locally-sourced

  • Hand-crafted

  • Non-toxic

A Free Resource for the Supporter

  • Grief Etiquette

  • 1. The dreaded “how are you?”

  • 2. Share your story

  • 3. Don’t try to make them feel normal

  • 4. “How can I support you?”

The truth is, relating to someone who has gone through tragedy can be awkward. Many people don't know what is appropriate or feel uncomfortable and will later share, “I didn’t say anything before because I didn’t know what to say,” or “I didn’t want to bother you or say the wrong thing.” The good intention is there; you want to convey your care and support for them, but what is the right thing to say or do? Here are a few actions that can make a respectful and significant difference...

Steer clear of this question for a while. It reminds them of how “not good” they are; they will let you know when they don’t feel horrible. Instead, sending texts like “thinking of you” or “sending you love” are great because they don’t require a thoughtful response.

Grievers are often most comfortable talking to people who have also lost someone close to them. It’s always helpful to know you’re not alone and to talk to someone who gets it. And as you quickly learn, you really don’t get it unless you’ve lived it.

The person grieving is living in a different reality where everything is foggy and worldly things feel meaningless. Until they are used to their “new normal” understand that they don’t have the capacity to care much about anything but basic tasks like remembering to eat. This is the really difficult part for the supporter to understand, but just give them space and don’t talk to them about “normal” things unless they ask for it.

It’s difficult to answer this question because often times the griever doesn't even know what they need. Remember, it's not your responsibility to make them feel better, just let them know that you care. Taking initiative is the most impactful support such as sending or dropping off food (remembering to eat really is a tough part) or sending something thoughtful that includes a helpful book or self-care goodies. Luckily, we got you covered on the latter with all the resources that will feel nourishing and supportive for navigating the grief journey.

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About Us

Co-Founders, Kate Vosti and Jake Nelson, are grateful for the opportunity to make the world a little brighter through Grief Gifts. The creation of this company was inspired by our own experiences of loss. With backgrounds in psychosomatic therapy and mindfulness coaching, we wholeheartedly provide comfort and support to those walking the path of grief, as well as those who want to show their care by sending a gift that truly reflects the compassion in their heart. You can expect the highest quality products, thoughtfully curated to offer emotional support and practical resources, ensuring that grievers feel seen and understood as they navigate their journey forward.

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